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Keeping habits, with other people around.

Short, practical pieces on what actually works when two or more people try to keep habits together. No hacks, no streak worship.

• 6 min readKeeping habits with your partner, without the naggingHow two people can keep habits together and still like each other: which habits to share, how to make the day visible instead of verbal, and what to do when one of you drops.Read
• 5 min readHow to run an accountability group of three or fourA small group keeps habits better than a person alone, if it is set up right: few people, specific habits, one visible page, and a plan for when someone drops.Read
• 4 min readWhy a streak should forgive one miss a weekA streak that resets on the first miss teaches people to quit. The forgiving streak keeps the motivation and drops the trap, and it is one setting.Read